Plastic surgery has been my motivation for completing college. Bf is against it. Any ideas?
When me and my bf started dating I was 16 and he was 21. I don’t know why he got with me but I had low self-esteem (thank you media!) so I put up with a lot of bull that I now regret. He pretty much would call me ugly to my face and thought it was funny cuz I would laugh too (low self esteem) and I knew he was embarrassed of me cuz he never took me out with his friends.
Since I was in middle school I’ve wanted a nose job and my bf says stupid things like ‘I love you even though you have a big nose’. I just want people not notice my huge nose first! When I imagine how it will be to get it fixed I start tearing up b/c I want it so BAD!
I also want to get glycolic peels to rid myself of the stretchmarks all over my body. I am on phentermine and losing the weight I gained with the baby. I REALLY hope to get down to 120 in a year (40 more lbs to go!). I want microdermabrasion to fix my acne scars and large pores.
I want breast implants to fix my breasts which have sagged all my life. When I was going 13 and going through puberty I learned I was fat so I stopped eating and lost rapid weight resulting in saggy breasts.
And I would also love to get a Brazilian butt lift b/c people have always made fun of how flat my bum is.
Wanting this stuff done is what is really motivating me to finish college. Instead of getting a nice car when I graduate I’d much rather save ½ years salary and get this done when I’m 23. Its what I dream about. Well when I told this to my bf he said I was stupid and I didn’t need any work done and natural is always better.
Well if natural is always better how come him and every guy will snap their necks trying to look at a girl who obviously has implants or he jerks off lookin at plastic girls like everyother guy on earth.
I know if I got this stuff done I’d be complete.
Oh yeah and don’t lecture me about my bad bf b/c he stopped calling me names a LONG time ago and tried to make things work out. I just never forgot b/c it still stays with me.
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I can understand wanting one or two things done because you want them, but it sounds to me like you really have issues with self-esteem. No amount of plastic surgery will ever fix what you feel about yourself on the inside. Learn to love yourself for who you are and do it soon because you don’t want to pass off your own insecurities to your child. Learn that there is so much more to being a beautiful person than what is on the outside you don’t want your son or daughter to grow up believing that a persons worth is soley based on what they look like do you? In my opinion a hard working mother who loves, cares, and provides for her family is much more beautiful than some plastic bimbo could ever hope to be.
You need to find a way to love yourself first before you start getting surgery. I know a girl in my church, that if she were my daughter, I would have gotten her ears done in grade school. There are days I would like to get my breasts done too. Nursing babies has left them not the way I would like them, but I would rather loose 20 lbs first. Not an easy task. A tummy tuck would be nice when those pounds are gone… Well, I am dreaming about a body that I always wanted, but it may never happen. I am ok with how I am really. My husband loves me and shows his love often, telling me I am beautiful. I hate pain and don’t think I am willing to go through the pain.
Oh my gosh!!! Advice for you…. Change the things you can with diet and exercise. Remember if you have another child you may gain weight again and have some of the same problems… So the weight loss idea is good and do body sculpting classes to firm everything up , like I should…
If I had a very large nose and was really self conscious of it, I would get it fixed, but wait on all the rest. I hope this helps and saves you a lot of money. After the nose job, if you skin still really bothers you have it worked on. The rest doesn’t show to anyone but you and your bf so let it go for awhile while you work on the weight loss and firming up. You may be surprised at how nicely things look after you work on it naturally. Squats are good for building the glute muscles. Good luck with it.
no. i am sorry. eff the other two answers. they obviously don’t know what it feels like to have bad self esteem. i live in los angeles. and people get plastic surgery all the time. it’s really not a big deal. i am 18 – i have wanted a nose job since i was 13, and i just had my surgery yesterday. (it does not hurt at all! no joke. i am really bad with pain too).
But dont go looking for acceptance from other people to tell you weather you should get surgery or not.
You are the one who is going to live with yourself the rest of your life and a little tweak hear and there is honestly not a big deal. you will be glad you did it and your confidence will go up as well.
i say go for it! and screw what other people think of you for getting whatever you want done. (: