I’m probably the ugliest person out there! Need help with my appearance!?
I’m a 14 year old asian girl and theres many, many, many things wrong with my appearance. I belive I’m probably the worlds ugliest person! Everyday I wake up and look in the mirror hoping to see a new face, but all I see is just an ugly girl staring back at me. Sometimes I would lock myself inside my room and break down into tears. If you guys know any information to help me fix the problems below then please answer! The questions are in brackets. Please don’t suggest me to get plastic surgery!
-Face
I have soo much things from with my face! I have a really square and chubby face and really high cheek bones. Whenever I smile It makes my nose look huge and makes my face look even fatter and bigger than it normally is! (Is there any way to make me smile again? And is there any way to fix my chubby and square shaped face?) I also have a really flat, big and round nose (Is there any way to make my nose look higher and sharper without contouring?) I also have really thick eyebrows it’s gotten thinner after I plucked them but they look so black! I want the hairs to become shorter and lighter colored (Is there any way to make them shorter and lighter without plucking myself like a chicken?)
-Body
I hate my body shape. My thighs, calves, butt and stomach are HUGE! I have a pear shaped body and I absolutely hate it!!!! All my fat has been stored on my butt, thighs, calves and stomach, but lately over the past few months I’ve been excersising daily maybe a little bit too much because my lower body has became really hard, it’s full of muscles. I’m afraid I can’t lose those muscles it’s gotten even bigger before I started excersising. (Is there any way to lose all that muscle and become skinnier?) Also when I said all my fat is stored on my lower body, that means theres no fat on my upper body, including my chest!!!!!!! I still wear a training bra….because I literally dont have any fat on my chest, it’s horrible! Yet I already have my period 2 years ago. When I wear the smallest cupped bra, it looks as if theres a huge space between the cup and my chest! (Is there any way to make my breasts bigger without the use of pills or plastic surgery?)
-Skin
I absolutely HATE my skin! I have this type of skin called KP short for Keratosis Pilaris where small red bumps on my arms, thighs, butt, and cheeks form, it gets worse in the winter and when you scratch it! I heard that KP is untreadable I even asked my doctor (Is there any way to make my KP less visible?) And I also have some acne problems but not as worse as my KP. I have some few spots here and there and they get really red and big over time, it’s so annoying! (Any way to reduce the redness and size of my pimples?) I also have this huge scar on my elbow caused by falling on concrete in grade 6, it looks like a skin colored leech stuck on my elbow. It’s a type of scar that creates a bump and it feels really smooth for some reason. It is 2.5 cm long and 0.8 cm wide. I tried all kinds of products to reduce the size of that scar but nothing works! (Is there any product that reduces the size of my scar that actualy works?) I have a really disgusting color to my face, it sort of a yellow tan kind of color, kinda looks like yellow puke. I really want whiter skin! Because tan skin looks awful on me. (Is there any way to make my skin whiter?)
Awee thanks for all your answers guys! I really appreciate it. Now that I look it over I do seem a little overreacting. I guess I’m not fully matured yet. I’ll just let time pass by another few years and see if anything changes.
PS the reason why I’m not putting up a picture is because, I think I’m hideous and whatever you guys say will probably make me break down in tears….yes I really need to work on my self-esteem
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Yeah I agree.
am not reading all this, picture is easier
one day you’ll love yourself don’t do plastic surgery and just try to love yourself
damn girl. what you need is a therapist. I mean people are usually low confidence at this age..but this is a little excessive. I have a feeling that you are exaggerating this a lot. I do that all the time. Get yourself some good friends, a smile and some confidence…..i mean sh** this is crazy.
and i thought that i had serious self-esteeem issues.. hahahah.
okay. take a breath. don’t be so hard on yourself.
there is nothing that makeup can’t fix, especially when it comes to your skin/face.
try to get some foundation that matches your skin tone so you can put that on, and then some powder/concealer. when it comes to your pear shaped body, you should maybe try running or something? and your chest. okay. i have big booobs and i HATE it. so be lucky. they’ll grow in time and age, you’re only fourteeen. and yeah. hope i helped a litttle?
You are probably very pretty. Everyone is gorgeous in their own ways. Don’t pay attention to those supermodels who always look “amazing”. But, you should feel comfortable with yourself. For your face, you may want to use some shaping powder to illusion the shape of your face. For your KP, my friend has it, and she has learned to live with it. That’s the way you were made. And as for the scar, try some scar treatment, or even laser scar treatment if you have the money. For your “huge” body, just make sure you are eating healthy and exercising.
there is only one thing wrong with your appearance – your confidence! trust me, no one looking at you will notice even a small percentage of the things you just listed about yourself. what they will see is someone who is miserable, and that is something you can change really easily.
a friend of mine growing up was just gorgeous, looked like a little doll. then she got hit by a car and lost one eye and has a mis-shaped skull as a result. she, her family and friends are all just so happy she is alive, no-one thinks she is any less beautiful now at all, in fact she is even more precious so more beautiful to us than ever. her strength and courage to recover through that is what shines through and men just adore her. which proves that beauty comes from within.
but you are 14 and self-obsessed and looking in the mirror and won’t believe any of this so here are a few tips to help you out. sigh.
chubby face – chew a lot. sugar-free gum or things like beef jerky etc. chewing a lot tones up your jawline and makes it more defined. as for your nose, use a little light concealer (a shade lighter than your skin tone) down the centre or bridge of your nose. it will give it more definition (just blend it in so you don’t just have a stripe). if you have make up on for an occasion etc, you can use a little light shimmer for this too.
body shape – walk. there’s no quick fix, you just need to excercise to tone up. walking is great as you can do other things like chat to a friend or plan your week etc while you do it and it is not too strenuous. it will also make you feel good about yourself and tone up your calves. when you sit in front of the tv next, use a couple of hand weights and just play with them. lift them, rotate them whatever, it will all work to tone up your arms. you can even just use things you have lying around the house.
skin – drink lots of water. focus on having a drink first thing in the morning and try and have at least a glass every hour. just plain water. try not to touch your face with your hands so the oil from your hands doesn’t block your pores. wash your face well twice a day, morning and night. use a gentle toner designed for acne prone skin. and replace junk food with fresh vegies and fruit.
if you do evena couple of these things you will start to feel better and it will translate to how you see yourself. who says your nose is too big? compared to what? i’ll bet that plenty of people would think you look just fine exactly as you are, so only make any lifestyle changes if it will make you feel better about yourself, not so you will look like what you think other people will like.
Girl, if you have that many things you don’t like about your physical self, i hope your are 100% content with your inner self. You will be a TOTALLY different looking person in a few years after you “mature”. Don’t be so hung up on looks. Inside is where it’s at.
Sorry I couldn’t help with any of your questions. You have excellent writing skills by the way.
Anything I can help you with, email me…its posted.
Since you took the time to write this i’m going to help you with some of your questions.
You cannot change the structure of your face, but with age your face will lengthen out and lose it’s chub, but if you are impatient the only thing you could do is contour using makeup. About your eyebrows… People want darker eyebrows, it frames your eyes and face really nicely and it’s much more flattering than having lighter ones. There’s no need to panic if you have a pear shape… Although I am older than you I went through the exact same bodily situation as you. I started exercising and building muscle which evidently caused me to bulk up for a certain period. But here’s the thing about muscles. Once you do gain muscle, they will in turn help you burn the fat that is sitting on top of them. you DO want muscle. It is much more beneficial. But don’t be alarmed, muscles (although they are smaller) they do have more mass so do not be surprised in the weight gain even if you do see a change in your physique. And don’t worry about the chest, it’ll grow in some time or another, or if not then there are always padded bras but don’t worry about that stuff yet. Oh and I also do have KP although after reading your description I realized mine is much more mild (only on back of my arms) and there is a way to reduce the appearance of it even though you may not get rid of it. KP is basically ‘chronic’ dry skin along with a mixture of other things which causes your pore to swell into those bumps. What helps is exfoliation then followed by moisturizing. If you are truly concerned, I have once tried prescription cremes/ lotions but I did see a drastic change, mostly because I wasn’t all too worried about it. If you want to be whiter then exfoliate more often. But there is really nothing you can do about the natural pigmentation of your skin. The only temporary way to get around it is using, again, makeup. But it’s honestly no use because God made you this way for a reason. You are the way you are supposed to be. I hope this helps and try to keep your head up high…what you’re going through is just typical teenage stuff… It’ll get better- promise!