How can i deal with my pretty friend?
To put it simply, my friend is gorgeous. Guys always pay attention to her and they’ll only look at me because I’m next to her. I always hear guys talking about her and i always see them stare at her. I might be jealous..I probably am. I’ve only gotten with those guys that date the not-so-pretty girls like me. :/ pity dates..the guys aren’t even cute. Is there a way to feel better about myself? I thought this might have just been a stage but its been going on for almost over 2 years. I can’t love who I am. and i break down whenever i think about a love life. How can anyone love me when i can’t love myself? I’ve been told im ugly many times…i have acne scars that wont go away, and haven’t been going away even if i eat right and take care of my skin. im considering plastic surgery. possibly in a year or two. Any help?
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Dont get plastic surgery. Your obviously using the wrong make up. There are loads of foundations out there that will cover your scars up. Get your hair fixed. Re-vamp your make up and shove some tissue in your bra.
Sounds like it’s pretty hard to enjoy the friendship when boys are around way too much!
I would make new friends where it doesn’t involve competing for guy’s attention… and try to hang out with her when it doesn’t involve boys to holler at you both. I have a friend who likes to compete for things too and honestly it brings me down even when I know I’m not trying to win.
It’s a dumb game, the pretty friend should be more considerate too.
goodluck
Yes, it can be intimidating and difficult to be confident around a friend whom you perceive to be far more attractive. Nonetheless, try. In the meanwhile, keep these points in mind.
1. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Your friend may be considered “universally attractive”, but know that there will always be individuals who appreciate YOUR beauty. Every human being is beautiful to someone.
2. Beauty is only skin deep. It truly is.
3. Beauty has absolutely no relationship whatsoever with one’s true happiness (or ability to find true love). Commit this to memory! (: I know, because like your friend, I’m considered “universally attractive”. This is not at all to praise myself, but I’m one of those people who often receives remarks about my “prettiness”. I’m almost 22 years old, and have never had a romantic relationship. I’ve never been kissed, not to mention having had any form of sexual experience. It’s never been mutual…this thing called “love”. Nothing’s ever worked out, or rather, nothing’s ever even begun to take shape for me. And the one that I love at the moment… the one I have loved for quite some time now…I know it’s completely impossible.
So you see, I’m physically attractive, but am I happy? No. Am I in pain? Often.
Hope this helps (: