ive always have had girls that are physcially attracted to me i would have been able to date most of them, the only thing that stops me is because i have a secret from basically everyone, they may find me attractive from the outside but under myself i have really bad scars from acne on my body that ive previously had years ago, but i don’t have that much actual acne, and the thing is i feel comfortable enough with my body that i wouldn’t be afraid to take my shirt off if i didnt have scars, but even if a girl found me attractive on the outside once she saw my body shed prb go running, and that’s why ive been single for so long, i thought about getting some sort of laser surgery, because its mostly scaring, i know insurance prb wouldn’t cover it because its considered a method of plastic surgery in my cases, but my doctor said it might be bad enough that i could get some sort of operation that insurance would cover, and if i did have surgery without insurance covering it how much would laser surgery cost because its basically on my shoulders chest, and upper back, so it’s a fairly large area

To put it simply, my friend is gorgeous. Guys always pay attention to her and they’ll only look at me because I’m next to her. I always hear guys talking about her and i always see them stare at her. I might be jealous..I probably am. I’ve only gotten with those guys that date the not-so-pretty girls like me. :/ pity dates..the guys aren’t even cute. Is there a way to feel better about myself? I thought this might have just been a stage but its been going on for almost over 2 years. I can’t love who I am. and i break down whenever i think about a love life. How can anyone love me when i can’t love myself? I’ve been told im ugly many times…i have acne scars that wont go away, and haven’t been going away even if i eat right and take care of my skin. im considering plastic surgery. possibly in a year or two. Any help?

Read my previous question even though it got cut off I’l just mention procedures I want.

Hairline lowering, nose job, acne/acne scar removal, chin and jaw job, liposuction on my cheeks/lips/ other parts of my face, cheekbone implants, and veneers.

I’m also thinking of getting eyelid surgery to open up my eyes a bit they’re not closed but they just seem chinky and dull sometimes, and I also might get botox/collagen injections on some parts of my face so they don’t sag as much and seem dull. I might also get fat injections around my body because I’m really really skinny, probably due to my nutrition which is/would be (hopefully) explain in the next paragraph(s).

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Hello,

I’m curious – I have mild acne, oily skin, and the likes.

I have blemishes, and minor scarring.

Couple days ago I did and 18% TCA peel (from M.A.C), and just in case all goes wrong, or I don’t get the results I want… is there a recommended expensive treatment, like from a plastic surgery or dermatologist clinic that could remove minor scars (maybe one deeper ice pick one) in one shot?

It can cost 1-2000$, any of you ever tried anything in that area of cost?

When me and my bf started dating I was 16 and he was 21. I don’t know why he got with me but I had low self-esteem (thank you media!) so I put up with a lot of bull that I now regret. He pretty much would call me ugly to my face and thought it was funny cuz I would laugh too (low self esteem) and I knew he was embarrassed of me cuz he never took me out with his friends.

Since I was in middle school I’ve wanted a nose job and my bf says stupid things like ‘I love you even though you have a big nose’. I just want people not notice my huge nose first! When I imagine how it will be to get it fixed I start tearing up b/c I want it so BAD!

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I have several pink acne scars on my shoulders and chest. I’m afraid I’m going to have to live with bumps and pits in my back for the rest of my life. Is there any type of plastic surgery to remove them, like placing the skin or something? I’m sorry, this is just ruining my life.

Hi, I’m 18 and have serious issues about my appearance. I tried a lot of things to be more confident, but every time I find something else on my body that I want to change. I have an overall good looking face but I hate my bottom half. I look like a baby, I have a lot of fat on my jawline and a slightly receding chin. A lot of times I feel really ugly because of this. I think that my weak chin is giving out the information that my personality is weak also. I think I will go and have a plastic surgery when I’ll have enough money. But I am concerned that if I’ll do that it won’t fix my problems with my confidence. Because now if I forget about my chin for a few days, I find something else that bothers me. I have mild acne on my face and back and it’s pissing me off. They leave horrible scars because I have a very light skin. And then I worry about my red face (I blush a lot for no reason).
I used to worry about my body too, but I finally love my body now. I came to my senses that I’m very slim and well build. I want to come to my senses about my face also, but here it gets complicated. I can’t help myself. I even never had a boyfriend, because I’m so concerned about my face. I stopped buying magazines where beautiful women appear, so that I don’t get reminded how weird I look. And I know where the problem lays, when I was a kid I used to get teased a lot and called ugly. I want to get over this. If you have any advice, please share,or if you have similar problems, tell me how you cope with it.
Thanks!

I have acne scars on both sides of my cheeks and generally all over my face, not terrible but for me they are. I have wide open pores. I still have the odd breakout of acne. I generally look ‘dirty’ and I hate my face. I want to look flawless. I wash twice a day and all that stuff…is there some plastic surgery which would help?

5 years ago I went to a skin docter. I had this open wound with crust constantly for couple years. The P.A looked at it and said it was acne and told me take tetracycline.A couple years later I called because it was not gone and embarasing and uncomfortable. They said couldnt have aptt because I owed money( not sure why I had INS.)A month ago some were around 5 or 6 years since acne diagnosed My father had been going there and got me an appt. to get checked . I at first did not realise same place but was.The same lady even worked on me. This time she says need biopsy either squamus or basal cell carcinoma .Not a big deal but being that it has been there for 5 – 8 years theres a chance an amount of tissue will have to be removed that could leave me looking like friar tuck or that monk on whatever bald circle .Only mine will also be a scar .Im being positive but also not stupid I could end up wearing a hat for rest of life which I never do now.I could be phisically disfigured in a sense which will emotionally disfigure my life.Doesnt matter not ? Every time I have been in this office they never mention I was a patient before. They know I have some amnesia from anurism and I know they knew the minute I walked in because they have file.Also when had biopsy she only biopsied one tumor , I have 3. Docter even said why she only do one? one she biopsied may have been there 1-2 years others5-7 so there not even sure what I have the one came back as basal cell and he planned to do mohs surgery on that one with as little flesh being removed as possible. He saw one more during consilation when said why not bio this. then showed how he was going to start cutting to get all of it too well theres at leastone more .I made appt with skin doc who is reconstructive plastic surgoen to get best after surgery results.so done with that place.Question really is why did they not say anything about me there before and also woops sorry you could of had a scar the size of quarter 5 years ago now closer to sand dollar. Second why not be concerned with what other tumors are . concidering I know one of them has been much longeron my scalp.Im an honest person and its very important to me and also expected by me.Also not a rebel rouser or someonne that sues people. If I come out friar tuck I tellyou what I am going to be so upset distraught lose self confidence and possibly much more. Maybe sad but in this world how you look is 1st thing people see and you are judged .Im scared . Also could be squamos that spread who knows.Why are they not saying anything and if fryar tuck comes walking out of surgery and or have to have radiation. What should I do opinions and if anyone knows what I can do id apreciate that so much. Thanks

I’m a 14 year old asian girl and theres many, many, many things wrong with my appearance. I belive I’m probably the worlds ugliest person! Everyday I wake up and look in the mirror hoping to see a new face, but all I see is just an ugly girl staring back at me. Sometimes I would lock myself inside my room and break down into tears. If you guys know any information to help me fix the problems below then please answer! The questions are in brackets. Please don’t suggest me to get plastic surgery!

-Face

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